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Together, we bring out the best in us all
YOUR HANDBOOK

Welcome.
You belong here.

Inclusive coaching for every kind of mind.

You made it. And honestly? That took something — whether it was a big leap of courage, a quiet nudge from someone who cares about you, or just a moment of deciding that something needed to shift. Whatever brought you here, I'm really glad you're here.

This handbook is a little guide to help you settle in. It's not a rulebook or a list of requirements. Think of it more like a warm cup of something you like — something to help you feel at home before we even begin.

We'll go through what coaching is, what our time together might look like, and a bit about who I am and how I work. There's no quiz at the end. No right way to read it. Take your time, skip around if you want, and come back to any part that feels useful.

You are naturally creative, resourceful, and whole.
ABOUT ME

Hi, I'm Jen.

Choosing support is no small thing — I'm genuinely glad you're here.

Jen, your coach

As a late-diagnosed AuDHDer, I came into coaching because I know what it's like to move through the world with a nervous system that's always working overtime, a mind that never stops, and a history of trying to be 'right' and 'just enough.' Working with neurodivergent people feels like coming home. I love this work because I believe deeply in the power of being truly seen — not for who we've been told to be, but for who we've been all along.

That's the heart of this space. I'm here to help you recognize and reclaim the strengths that have always been part of you, even if they've been buried under stress, shame, or survival mode. Together, we'll make room for your real ways of thinking, feeling, and operating — not as problems to fix, but as truths to honor.

We'll absolutely tackle the practical, everyday challenges of life. But the deeper transformation happens when you start meeting your own inner chaos with curiosity instead of criticism, and when you begin to trust that your way of being makes sense.

I'm excited to walk alongside you as you grow into the version of yourself you've been becoming all along.

Every kind of mind is welcome here

Neurodiversity-affirming, inclusive, and judgment-free.

You are the expert on your own life

I bring questions. You bring the answers.

Progress looks different for everyone

We celebrate all of it — even the tiny wins.

A Note on "All Along"

The name means something to me. It's a reminder that the answers, the strength, the creativity — they've been with you all along. We're just going to find them together.

WHAT IS COACHING?

Coaching is a conversation
that moves you forward.

A space where you get to think out loud.

Coaching is one of those things that can be a little hard to describe until you experience it. It's a collaborative, forward-focused conversation — a space where you get to explore what matters to you and figure out what you actually want. Not what you think you should want, or what someone else wants for you.

A coach asks questions. Good ones. The kind that help you see things from a new angle, notice patterns you hadn't spotted before, or get clear on something that's been fuzzy. Coaching is about you. Your goals. Your life. Your pace.

Coaching vs. Therapy — a quick look

Coaching
Therapy
Focuses on the present and future
Often explores the past and its roots
Goal-oriented and action-focused
Healing-oriented and process-focused
You are the expert on your life
Therapist has clinical expertise
Works best when you're ready to move
Works through pain, trauma, and diagnosis

Coaching and Neurodiversity

All Along coaching is specifically designed to be inclusive of neurodivergent minds — including ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, and other ways of thinking and being. We don't try to make you fit a neurotypical mold. We work with how your brain actually works.

OUR PARTNERSHIP

This is a partnership.

And partnerships work best when both people show up.

Coaching isn't something I do to you — it's something we do together. You're not a passive recipient here. You're an active participant, and your engagement is what makes the magic happen.

Together, we bring out the best in us all

What I Bring

Curiosity, warmth, and a genuine belief in you

Questions that help you think more clearly

A judgment-free space

Training, tools, and full presence

Flexibility — if something isn't working, we'll change it

What You Bring

Yourself — exactly as you are

Your goals, questions, and honest experience

Willingness to explore, even when it's uncomfortable

No need to have it all figured out

Just show up

Confidentiality

What you share in our sessions stays between us. Confidentiality is foundational to coaching. The only exceptions are situations where there's a risk of harm — and I'll always be transparent with you about those limits.

HOW SESSIONS WORK

Here's what a session actually looks like.

Real conversations. No performances.

Before Your Session

You don't have to do anything special to prepare. But if it helps, you might ask yourself: What's on my mind right now? What do I want to focus on today? If you have a lot going on and can't think of anything specific, that's okay too. We'll figure it out together.

During Your Session

We'll start by checking in — how are you, what's alive for you today, what feels most important to focus on. Sessions are typically 50–60 minutes. We might explore a challenge, celebrate something that went well, work through a decision, or just think out loud. Sometimes sessions feel energizing and clear. Sometimes they feel a little tangled — and that's okay. The tangles are often where the good stuff is hiding.

After Your Session

You might feel energized, reflective, or a little tired — all of that is normal. Some people like to jot down notes while things are fresh. Others prefer to just let it settle. Between sessions, there's no pressure to 'do' anything specific — though if you want to, we can create some gentle experiments or next steps together.

WHAT TO EXPECT

Coaching is a journey.

Here's what the road might look like.

01

In the Beginning

The first few sessions are about getting to know each other and getting clear on what you want. It's normal to feel a little uncertain at first. There's no right way to do coaching. We'll find your way.

02

As We Go

Over time, you'll start to notice things. Patterns you hadn't seen before. Strengths you'd forgotten about. New ways of thinking about old problems. Coaching tends to build on itself — each session opens up a little more space.

03

Progress Looks Different for Everyone

Some clients come in with a specific goal. Others are more exploratory. Both are completely valid. Progress isn't always linear. Sometimes you'll have a breakthrough. Sometimes the shift is so subtle you almost miss it — until one day you realize things feel different.

04

When Coaching Ends

Coaching relationships have a natural arc. When the time comes to wrap up, we'll do it intentionally — celebrating how far you've come and making sure you feel equipped to keep going on your own. And if life brings you back to coaching later, the door is always open.

GENTLE GUIDELINES

A few things that help us both show up well.

Think of these as shared agreements, not rules.

Show Up as You Are

You don't need to perform or pretend. If you're having a hard day, say so. If you're confused, say so. The more honest you can be, the more useful our time together will be.

It's Okay to Not Know

Coaching is full of questions — and not all of them have immediate answers. You're allowed to say 'I don't know.' In fact, 'I don't know' is often the most interesting place to start.

Give Yourself Permission to Change Your Mind

What you want from coaching might shift over time. Your goals might evolve. That's not inconsistency — that's growth. If something feels off, just say so. We'll adjust.

Cancellations and Scheduling

Life happens. If you need to reschedule, please give me as much notice as you can — ideally 24 hours. I'll do the same for you. We'll work out the specifics in our coaching agreement.

Feedback Is Welcome

If something isn't working — a question felt off, a session didn't land, you want to try something different — please tell me. I genuinely want to know. This is your coaching, and I want it to feel right for you.

GETTING STARTED

You're already on your way.

If you're reading this, you've already taken a step. And that matters.

1

Your first session

A chance to meet, get comfortable, and start to explore what you're hoping for. There's no pressure to have it all figured out. We'll just talk.

2

Find your rhythm

We'll settle into a session frequency and format that works for your life, your brain, and your goals.

3

All along the way

I'll be here. Not just in sessions, but as a consistent, caring presence in your corner. That's what 'all along' means to me.

"Whatever brought you here — curiosity, courage, a little desperation, a friend's recommendation, or just a gut feeling that it was time — I'm glad it did. You deserve support. You deserve a space that's made for you."

Your first session is free.

Let's get started. Reach out to book your free first session — no commitment required, just a conversation.

Book Your Free First Session →
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Life Coaching and Mental Wellness

Inclusive coaching for every kind of mind.

INTAKE FORM

Before we meet.

A little about you, in your own words.

There are no right or wrong answers here. This form helps me show up prepared and present for our first conversation. Take your time, skip anything that doesn’t feel relevant, and know that everything you share is confidential.

The Basics

Just the essentials so I know who I’m talking to.

A Little About You

No need to have it all figured out. Just share what feels true right now.

What You’re Hoping For

Vague is fine. “I don’t know” is a perfectly valid answer.

How You Work Best

This helps me show up in a way that actually works for your brain.

Practical Stuff

Life is real. Let’s plan around it.

One Last Thing

Anything you want me to know before we begin.

Progress saved automatically — just now

When you click submit, your responses will be prepared in your email client so you can send them directly to me.

RESOURCES

A few things I love.

Reading and listening between sessions.

These are books and podcasts I genuinely love and return to. They're not required reading — think of them as an open invitation. If something catches your eye, follow that curiosity. And if nothing does right now, that's completely fine too.

Books

Your Brain's Not Broken

Tamara Rosier

A compassionate, practical guide to understanding how the ADHD brain actually works — and learning to work with it rather than against it. Validating, insightful, and full of real strategies.

Unmasking Autism

Devon Price, PhD

A compassionate exploration of what masking costs us — and what becomes possible when we stop. Essential reading for late-diagnosed folks.

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

A profound look at how our nervous systems hold our stories. Helpful context for understanding why some things feel so hard — and why healing is possible.

You Are a Badass

Jen Sincero

Irreverent, funny, and surprisingly moving. A great companion when you need a reminder that you're more capable than you think.

Laziness Does Not Exist

Devon Price, PhD

A research-backed dismantling of the shame we carry around productivity. Especially resonant for those of us who've internalized the idea that we're 'not doing enough.'

The Gifts of Imperfection

Brené Brown

A gentle guide to letting go of who you think you should be and embracing who you are. Brené's warmth and honesty make this one feel like a conversation with a friend.

Podcasts

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers

Practical strategies, honest conversations, and a community that genuinely gets it. One of the most consistently useful ADHD podcasts out there.

The Neurodiversity Podcast

Emily Kircher-Morris

Thoughtful, research-grounded conversations about neurodivergent experiences across the lifespan. Great for understanding yourself and the people you love.

Unlocking Us

Brené Brown

Conversations about courage, vulnerability, and what it means to live wholeheartedly. Every episode leaves you with something to sit with.

The Autistic Culture Podcast

Matt Lowry & Angela Kingdon

A joyful, affirming celebration of autistic identity and culture. Refreshingly positive and deeply human.

How to ADHD

Jessica McCabe

Short, warm, and incredibly practical. Jessica has a gift for making complex ADHD concepts feel approachable and even a little fun.

We Can Do Hard Things

Glennon Doyle

Raw, funny, and deeply honest conversations about the hard parts of being human. A reminder that you're not alone in any of it.

A note: These suggestions are a starting point — I'll update this list as I discover new favourites. If you come across something that resonates with you, I'd love to hear about it in our sessions.

SESSION PLANNER

Your Goal & Session Planner.

A simple tool to help you arrive ready.

This optional handout includes a Goal Setting Planner and a Coaching Session Planner — two worksheets you can fill in before our sessions to help you clarify what you want to work on and what you hope to get out of the work. There are also two worked examples to show you what a completed planner might look like. There's no right or wrong way to use these — even a single word or question is enough.

Goal Setting Planner

Name your big goal, desired outcomes, success measures, and context.

Coaching Session Planner

Track topics and intentions across up to four sessions at a glance.

Sample Goals

Two worked examples showing how others have filled in their planner.

Download Planner (PDF)

4-page printable handout · Free to print or fill in digitally

GET IN TOUCH

I'd love to hear from you.

No question is too small.

Whether you have a question before our first session, need to reschedule, or just want to say hello — please reach out. I'm a real human who reads every message, and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.

Send me a message

If something feels urgent or you're not sure whether to reach out — reach out. There's no wrong reason to send a message. I'm glad you're here.